what is style REALLY?

Growing up in North Carolina, I was completely unaware of the fact that clothes, were not merely warn to cover our bodies. I had no real concept of how CLOTHES or the way we DRESS actually affect how we ACT, and FEEL about ourselves.  Since then, I have been lucky enough to travel all around California working for Ralph Lauren and BCBG helping all types of people, regardless of demographic, body type, age, coloring, and interests, look and feel good in the styles and clothes that best match their body type for numerous events! 


In my experience, I've noticed that, MOST people know when clothes aren't flattering on them. So WHY then, do we continually make poor choices in the morning when getting ready for our day? Is it just habit? Or, does it really come down to not knowing WHAT actually looks GOOD on our bodies, or how to STYLE the clothes that could look good? Luckily the SIMPLEST things make the biggest difference, and after years of people asking me for "fashion" advice, I've decided it's time to tell you all the truth... Looking "fashionable" has less to do with WHAT you specifically wear, and MORE to do with HOW you wear it (OR how it fits on your body)! Surprised?


It's not a coincidence that when someone appears to be "in Style"their clothes are actually fitting their bodies properly. Just like anything that one wants to excel in, some sort of education is needed in order to dress ones body appropriately and well! Understanding what things like pleats, darts, and stripes actually do to, or for a body, are some of the most basic and most important principles to learn in order to always be a successful shopper and stylist for ones self.  


All of my favorite memories from Ralph Lauren are centered around seeing the physical and emotional changes in people; as I was able to help them find and style clothes that were the most flattering on them! Bottom line, by dressing for our body types, we will have more confidence and be able to be happier with ourselves.  


If nothing else, just remember, NO ONE looks good in EVERYTHING; and EVERY body type has to WORK to find the clothes that fit them the best!